"Good coaching is about leadership and instilling respect in your players. Dictators lead through fear - good coaches do not." -John Wooden
Thursday, April 18, 2013
Optimism
1. Develop Optimism: If you are not optimistic about the future, how can you expect your team to be? Whether it’s your employees, vendors, friends, or family, you’ve got to lead with true optimism. Sometimes it can be a lonely position to take, but it’s what your team needs and WANTS from you. While most others are focusing on complaining, whining, and multiple regrets, your job as the leader is to look for opportunities and possibilities.
2. Show Courage and Be Energetic. Do not be afraid of confronting problems or those that create them. And don’t be “that manager” hiding behind the office door, hoping the problems will just go away. Newsflash - They WON’T! Being optimistic takes courage and energy. As a leader YOU have to be fully committed to the long term. It takes an energetic leader to carry the torch. Get your rest, eat right, exercise, and lead your team with high energy.
One of my favorite other quotes from Zig Ziglar is: “I’m so optimistic I’d go after Moby Dick in a row boat and take the tartar sauce with me.” Optimism is a conscious choice that has a huge impact on your ability to succeed. Optimism will inspire the confidence of your team that is required to take full advantage of the opportunities that exist.
Monday, March 25, 2013
Hanging on to Marginal Performers
- Kindness, Loyalty, and Being nice. Maybe we “like” them, they “like” us, or both. Perhaps their performance in the organization was, at one point, successful. Out of a desire to be a “nice person” or please people, and not to be the “bad guy.” Perhaps we worry about their family, livelihood, or future.
- Confrontation. These conversations are difficult, and you simply don’t want to have it. This again can be tough when you really “like” the person.
- Being too optimistic about their ability to change. We often think: if I give it more time… or I'm not helping them enough…
When someone on the team becomes a marginal performer, it hurts them, their colleagues, and you. Initially, it is the leader’s responsibility to support change by offering the resources to help marginal performers improve. After that, if the issue persists, you are not doing anyone any favors by keeping them in place.
Certainly, this is not a recommendation to fire someone with a long and successful career who may be having a few bad months. Yet, if the problem persists, it’s time to help them find a better situation.
If you are still holding on to a marginal performer, it’s time to look at the reason and make a change. Recognizing your own pattern of holding on too long, and helping all involved by making a positive, perhaps difficult, change is not only good for you and your organization, but also it is the right thing to do.
Tuesday, March 05, 2013
Waiting Too Long to Develop Leaders
This study found that people start supervising at around the age of 30, but get their first leadership training at the age of 42! The implications are that organizations have managers leading people for ten years before they get any leadership training!
Think about it this way: would you go to a Doctor who practiced medicine for 10 years before going to Medical School? How about your Accountant?
People need to be exposed to leadership training as soon as possible. Well before being placed in supervisory or management roles. Leadership is everyone’s responsibility and leadership training should start from the first day on the job.
What is your organization doing to develop leadership at all levels?
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Monday, February 25, 2013
Patience
Here is why Patience (at the right time) is the effective Leader’s best choice:
1. Too much speed, speed, speed. People and teams, like athletes, cycle through periods of great productivity and periods of recovery. Good leaders understand that recovery time is essential for speed in the next “sprint”, and they manage the pace and rhythm of their teams accordingly.
2. Developing people takes time, deliberate effort, (and yes) a great deal of patience. While you as the leader might see pure raw potential in a team member, people develop at their speed, not yours. Your encouragement is appreciated, but display impatience (even good impatience) and you risk derailing and demoralizing the individual.
3. People process change at different rates of speed. Some are quick to dive into waters they don’t yet understand, however, many others prefer to process on and internalize the issues around change at their own pace. Fail to show patience with those who are in mid-process, and you risk losing them.
Most leaders I know, like me, are impatient for action. They are excited about helping drive people towards a destination and they often see the gap between today’s situation and tomorrow’s idealized state. The most effective leaders however, understand that patience, for all of the list reasons, can help everyone get there faster.
Monday, February 18, 2013
Accountability
In your role as a leader, you need to get people moving towards objectives. Yet some people don't want to move. And when you hold people accountable, some people will push back.
Why? It’s because we really don’t like to be held accountable. But here is a secret: Most people need it, even want it, from their leaders. Most bosses don't even try to hold people accountable. I said "bosses" and not "leaders". Bosses micromanage. Leaders hold people accountable. There is a HUGE difference.
Imagine lying in bed and trying to shut off your alarm, but it won't shut off. The alarm just keeps beeping and beeping and beeping. THAT'S micromanaging. Effective leadership makes a contract with you (sets the wake up time), monitors the progress of that contract every so often (checks the time), and goes about its other duties until the contract is complete (waits for the alarm to go off), then creates a new contract with you.
Here is the lesson for leaders: make agreements with your people, and then trust them to get the work done. Check with them at your agreed-upon times. And, by all means, if they're not delivering, hold them accountable. The rest of the time, focus on what you need to do.
Monday, February 11, 2013
Fear: Not A Way to Live or A Way to Lead
Have you ever run into someone who is afraid they are going to lose their job? Or who is afraid of failure? Or who is just plain risk averse? Are they successful? In my experience, they are generally not successful or at least not as successful as they could be.
Leaders must understand risk and be able to accept risk. While there are courses in risk management, the important thing to remember is that there is always risk. Everything we do comes with some risks. Driving to work in the morning has risk (Actually a very high risk). If leaders are unwilling to accept risk, they will be ineffective.
Someone who is so afraid of losing their job that they refuse to take a risk, may lose their job because they are ineffective. Think about it.
Leaders must be able to adapt to the situation and be willing to accept the risk of failure in order to be successful. Leaders who are unwilling to accept risk must be satisfied with mediocre performance from their teams, their organizations, and themselves.
Monday, February 04, 2013
Dealing with People Problems
What is a leader to do when confronted with this situation?
1. Don’t get so wrapped up in the problem that your relationship with other team members suffers. Continue to relate to everyone. They need to continue to see you and to have open communication with you. They also need confidence that you are actively working to enforce standards.
2. Second, work one-on-one directly with the problem and the person. Nothing in the world is more demoralizing for a team than to have a leader send a blanket email stating the policy and trying to solve a problem involving only one person. Usually the person with the problem doesn't know it's meant for them (so they ignore it) and everyone else is insulted that the leader isn't dealing directly and personally with the issue. Hiding behind blanket emails sent to everyone about every transgression is a sign of weakness and insecurity. It sends a message to the team that you are unwilling to engage and you don't understand the dynamics of the team.
This is a time for the leader to be involved and engaged. Get to the bottom of the issue. There are established standards being violated. Leaders also need compassion. It is important to assume "noble intent" on the first meeting. Some people just don't see how what they are doing is divisive or contrary to the team.
Dealing directly with people shows the team that you are engaged and willing to take care of the "tough stuff" personally. It demonstrates that you have a good knowledge of the team dynamics and reinforces to the team that you care about each of them and understand their contributions.
Leaders must act when confronted with people problems. And they must act personally and directly to resolve the problem.
Monday, January 28, 2013
Hard Work Beats Talent, When Talent Doesn’t Work Hard!
There is no simple secret to success. There are no silver bullets or short cuts. But nothing is more important than preparation and hard work. Yes, we can all point to examples of people who are successful “flying by the seat of their pants”. There are always exceptions.
In business, we compete every day. We compete with other companies. We compete with other employees. We compete with other candidates during interviews. Does the most naturally talented individual always win? No. Does the most naturally talented individual win most of the time? I would argue “No”. In my experience the most prepared individual wins.
The lesson is simple, “Hard Work Beats Talent, When Talent Doesn’t Work Hard”. Don’t make excuses. Simply work hard and be prepared. You will win more often than you think.
Monday, January 21, 2013
Important things you won't learn in school
The Whole Truth Is An Illusion – You will almost never know the whole truth, so don’t pretend that you do or that you will. Our perceptions of the world are clouded by our own subjectivity and by our interpretation of information. But this shouldn’t stop you from making a decision. Analysis paralysis is a term used to describe the situation where the deeper you dig into a topic the more questions you have. As a rule of thumb, don’t make decisions with only 10 percent of the available information – but don’t expect to have more than 75 percent before a timely decision is required. Most importantly, be humble in your decisions and opinions because of this fact, but stand by them until proven wrong by more information.
Great Ideas Are Nothing Without Execution – Great ideas without good execution get slaughtered in the market by ‘good enough’ ideas with great execution. There are plenty of examples of the same idea failing until properly executed such as Facebook when compared to earlier attempts such as Six Degrees and Friendster.
Intelligence Still Requires Experience – In school we compete against classmates that have generally the same level of experience. Thus, one’s intelligence plays a key role in academic performance. In the real world brilliance alone, especially in competitive situations, simply isn’t enough. The Dunning-Kruger effect, sometimes termed Illusory Superiority, tells us that the less competent we are in any given area (competence is driven by experience), the more likely we will rate ourselves as “better than average” in competency. This illusory superiority often drives bad decisions.
Not All Conflict Is Bad. We grow up being told not to argue with our teammates or peers but both scholars and practitioners agree that there are good and bad forms of conflict. The good conflict, known as cognitive conflict, is the healthy debate that teams participate in when determining what or why something should be done. It involves a wide range of perspectives and experiences and can help generate strategic options for growth.
Leadership Is About EQ not IQ – Evidence suggests that the most successful leaders have some minimum IQ. But IQ alone is not sufficient to be a successful leader. The greatest leaders have high emotional quotients, often considered a combination of social intelligence and emotional intelligence. Leadership is not about you. It’s about your teams. As a leader you need to check your ego at the door and worry more about your team’s welfare, performance, and improvement.
Friday, January 11, 2013
Decisions
The challenge is that most of us have weak decision making muscles mainly because we tend to say "I will give it a go and see if it works." A truly committed decision is like a laser beam that is so focused on its target that nothing can get in its way. In its Latin form the word "decide" means to "cut off" and that is what a truly committed decision calls us to do.
Cut off all other possibilities to the extent that you will not even consider any other result. Now this might sound easier said than done and I have to agree. BUT once you realize that making decisions is a skill and that the more you practice it the better you get at it, you will begin to powerfully direct and shape your life towards your ultimate destination.
Consider this: Start by taking a different look at problems and challenges. Commit yourself to seeing them as the necessary "weights" to build enough strength to reach your goals. Learn to welcome problems as opportunities to grow and soon you will habitually turn challenges into opportunity.
Thursday, January 03, 2013
How Do You Treat Waiters?
The way you treat others offers a window into the type of person you are. Your interaction with people, whose job is to serve you, reflects on your character and offers a glimpse into the way they will react to you.
When you behave in a condescending manner, you are sure to elicit a negative reaction. Immediately, the person you are talking down to will be put off, even if they don’t show it. You will squelch any inclination for the other person to go out of their way to help you. At most, they will do no more than the bare minimum necessary to keep you mollified.
Many Managers like to observe how job candidates treat waiters. How a prospective employee treats a waiter offers a clear picture of the type of person he/she is. Someone who is polite to you but discourteous to a waiter does not have desirable interpersonal skills. They tend to be abrasive, causing friction among coworkers and subordinates.
People, who are rude to waiters, erroneously believe they are displaying power and authority. They mistakenly think their behavior will impress others. Anyone who attempts to elevate their status by stepping on others will ultimately fall flat on their face.
People with integrity and character treat everyone with courtesy and respect, regardless of their occupation, financial, or social status. They don’t view themselves as being above or below anyone else.
Treat everyone you encounter with dignity. In so doing, your relationships with people, even strangers, will improve. You will still find some individuals you just can’t deal with. But they will be much more of an exception. You can never go wrong by treating another person well.
Thursday, August 23, 2012
Lessons from my first Triathlon
Tuesday, August 07, 2012
“Chance favors the prepared mind.” - Louis Pasteur
- Prepare yourself for opportunities so that you can take advantage of them when they come.
- Put yourself in a position that makes it easier for opportunities to come.
While both are important, the first is more important because it is what makes the difference. What’s the use of getting a lot of opportunities if you can’t take advantage of them?
At this point, most of the world knows that U.S. swimmer Michael Phelps broke the all-time record for most medals won by an Olympian. And, there is a very applicable lesson about preparation we can all learn from Phelps. You may recall that in Beijing in 2008, Phelps won one of his medals while swimming with his goggles full of water. He couldn’t see a thing and still won gold. After that race, Phelps said that while he had never competed before with water in his goggles, he had practiced that way. Bob Bowman, Phelps’ coach, made sure he had the water in the goggles experience to prepare for that scenario in Olympic competition.
When it happened in real time, Phelps’ preparation enabled him to stay calm and start counting his strokes. He knew how many strokes he needed to touch the wall and didn’t stop swimming full out until he did.
So, how can you prepare yourself for opportunities? Here are three ways to prepare yourself for future opportunities:
1. Be curious
Curiosity makes you eager to know more about the world out there. If you are curious, you won’t be satisfied with what you already know. You will want to know more. As a result, you will see more potential opportunities. It’s like being in a building with windows. The more windows the building has, the more you can see what’s out there.
2. Educate yourself
When you find something interesting, start educating yourself about it. Don’t worry if you can’t do anything about it right now. Remember, you are preparing for the future. Educate yourself in whatever it is that you find interesting. Read blogs, subscribe to magazines, watch videos, read books. Build a prepared mind that “luck” favors.
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Friday, July 13, 2012
Personal Innovation
Tuesday, May 22, 2012
It's that time of year for thousands of Seniors across North America. Graduation!
Friday, October 07, 2011
Never give up
Take a moment to fully appreciate that: 200 miles in a single run. Think about the last time you went for a run, it was probably less than an hour.
It’s not because he has bigger lungs or stronger legs. It’s all in his mind. It’s not a physical thing. Now, it’s easy to say that people like Dean Karnazes are “freaks” and that’s why they can do the incredible things they do.
But isn’t that just an excuse?
Doesn’t that give us justification to not attempt the same things? We can sit back in our comfortable chair and say “well if I was Blessed with lungs like his then I would do the same, but I’m not, so I won’t”.
But we’re just kidding ourselves when we do this aren’t we?
Dean Karnazes is not a freak. He is a normal guy who has chosen to do some incredible things. He was nobody before he decided to do this. In fact, there are people with bodies far more suited to endurance running than his who haven’t done anything.
The fact is – anyone can choose to do something incredible.
And ‘anyone’ includes you…
Thursday, October 06, 2011
The Importance of Hard Work
You do not come across success just by hoping for it. To achieve true success, you need the strength of mind and body to struggle and work hard to reach your fullest potential. You need the right attitude, self-discipline, and the ability to put your goal before all other desires if you are really driven towards reaching success. There is, after all no substitute for hard work. As Henry Ford said, “The harder you work, the luckier you get”, and the more successful you get!
The truly successful person keeps trying and struggling. Thomas Edison failed approximately 10,000 times while he was working on the light bulb and yet he never dreamed of giving up – this is the hard work and the determination that marks a true success. Indeed, success is not measured by the position that you are in today, but by the amount of hard work you put in and the number of obstacles that you overcome to reach your goal.
There are no short cuts to success. Hard work, complimented with a willingness to struggle to achieve success is the only way to reach your goals.
Remembering Steve Jobs
Like many, I respected Steve Jobs and his genius, and I am deeply saddened by his passing. The reality is that even if you have never owned an Apple product, Steve Jobs impacted all our lives.
There are many lessons we can all learn from Steve Jobs brief, but brilliant life. In particular, if you have not seen his 2005 Commencement address at Stanford, it is time well invested.
“Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on. So keep looking until you find it. Don’t settle.”
Take these lessons and apply them to your life–personally and professionally. Once you stop setting new goals to strive for, your strategy for your career or your life becomes timid and leads to stagnation and decline.
“Stay Hungry, Stay Foolish”
You have today. What will your legacy be?
Wednesday, July 20, 2011
What can your organization learn from a mouse?
It's hard to imagine a place more magical than Walt Disney World. We are heading back to Disney and I’m sure we will have a great time!
On my first trip, I marveled at how clean Disney parks were and how friendly the cast was. How does Disney keep its cast members so motivated?
The motivation, the desire to perform well on the job, the feeling like they can make a difference is not just about training, it's about great leadership. Disney takes pride in having great leaders who create an environment where people want to do their best. Cast members want to do their jobs in 90-degree heat and 98-percent humidity, and keep on smiling while they are doing it because they feel like they are adding value and contributing.
The secret to Disney's success isn't magic pixie dust. It's a secret Walt Disney realized years ago: "You can dream, create, design and build the most wonderful place in the world but it requires people to make the dream a reality.”
Walt Disney's dream of creating a magic place where dreams can come true has obviously been fulfilled. What can your organization learn from a mouse?